I Stop to See a Weeping Willow, Crying on his Pillow

A while back, Adrienne asked me for a list of pumpkin designs since I have this unstitched pumpkin patch growing in my craft room. My other passion is for willow trees, and I half promised to put together a list of those. I’ve been thinking about all this because the project I am currently stitching has willow trees on it.

No doubt, you already know that willow trees were often used symbolically on mourning samplers in the Victorian period. Before I go any further, let me tell you, I’m no historian. One of my English professors once called my grasp on history “impressionistic,” which I thought was a pretty way of looking at it. She probably meant to motivate me to be more historically accurate, but she couldn’t. I just want to you know, that when I say “they” in the “Victorian period” I’m talking about two continents of people* who lived over a period of 70 years as if they all acted the same way all the time during those years. They didn’t. Just so you know, I know.

Nevertheless, I will say those Victorians were crazy about death. I’m serious. Photography was coming to the masses, and they would often take photos of their dead relatives** laid out in the living room. Or, even freakier, photos were taken of dead relatives made to look alive. (Clearly, Weekend at Bernie’s is part of a long tradition.) Or, freakiest of all, posed with the living. These post mortem photos, which may be the only ones in existence of the person, might be sent to all the relatives, kind of like the prayer cards Catholics give out. (I'm not a collector.) They also would use the hair of the dead in lockets—woven into knots, not just tied with a ribbon like the hair your mom saved from your first haircut—or other jewelry, or, indeed, in art. Nothing like having aunt Hilda’s hair woven into flowers to remember her by. It should come as no surprise, then, that the dead relative’s hair would also be used to stitch mourning samplers.

More on mourning and mourning samplers:

• This article from the late 70s was one of the first to examine the dead people picture thing. See if you can get it through your library.
• Scarlett letter has a mourning sampler pattern with a history of the genre (this one has another interpretation of columbines, too.)
• This sampler, in the collection of the Massachusetts Historical Society, includes watercolor painting on the sampler. And I thought that "embellished" cross-stitch was just a tacky modern invention.
• My impressionistic sense of history is a little outraged by the impressionistic sense of history in this one.

You can find patterns for mourning samplers here and here, the latter sans willow trees.

Interestingly enough, the several willow designs I possess aren’t mourning samplers at all.

• LHN, Willow Tree Inn
• Carriage House Samplings, Willow Tree Sampler
• City Stitcher, Willow Trees Sampler
• Hands to Work, Two Fine Houses
• Hillside Samplings, Folk Art Thread Keep (current project)
• Moira Blackburn, Keep Me Sampler
• Samplers and Such, Oriental Tin Topper Willow’s Garden
• Simply Old Fashioned, Twinkling of Willows

Found through Hoffman Distributors:

• Blackbird Designs, Willow House
• By the Bay, Willow Hill
• Carousel Charts, Willow Tree Sampler
• Carriage House Samplings, Black Willow Farm
• Carriage House Samplings, Willow
• Dames of the Needle, W is for Willow
• Hillside Samplings, Autumn Willow
• La D Da, My Ways
• La D Da, Willow Tree
• Sampler Girl, Mrs. Lincoln Sampler
• Threads Through Time, Willow

Even though willow trees are a little more difficult to find in a simple search (some patterns feature willows but don't have "willow" in the name), there still aren’t nearly as many willow patterns as there are pumpkins, which is a shame. I’ve always wanted to design a sampler with willow trees--it would be for mourning our pets. I know a good quote about dead animals (you’ll have received it from me if you blogged about a dead pet). And, well, I love the willow trees. Someday, but don’t hold your breath.

* technically, only the British are “Victorian” since she was their queen, but Americans did exist between 1837-1901(still do) and some of their customs were very similar to the English (still are)

**I don't have to tell you not to follow these links if pictures of dead people freak you out, right?

I know, three posts in one day, what am I high? Apparently, see below. Who agrees to shell out $12 to send a one pound package?

Sonambulent

I'm exhausted today. I don't know why, really. On Friday, we took my MIL to Winterthur. They make a big deal of pronouncing it Winter-ter. But if we're doing the Germanic thing, shouldn't it be Vinter-ter? I'm going to keep on saying Winter*th*ur until they explain themselves. Anyway, on the "Elegant Entertaining" tour of the house, the guide walked us into a room and asked what the first thing we noticed was. Someone said that the theme of the room was "Washington." Since the guide had been heavy on the themes of the rooms, I figured that was the right answer. But what I noticed were the mourning samplers. She did point those out, but how smart would I have looked if I actually said it first. Anyway, there is a whole conservation program there, and I was thinking maybe I have found what I want to do when I grow up: conserve and preserve textiles. Since, you know, I didn't really have any other plans for my future. The requirements would practically necessitate getting a whole new B.A. I'm not sure I can take 4 chemistry classes and work full time. And don't forget the last time I printed a black and white photograph was in 1989, and I probably couldn't pass a drawing class if my life depended on it. At least I have 8 units of art history! I should do some informational interviewing before I try to schedule organic chemistry.

On Saturday, we moved my sister to her new place. Um, note to self: avoid helping people move who have more than one staircase. Oh, I felt the burn.

On Sunday, the dude had to work on his library school paper so I took his mom to Wegman's for lunch. We bought some fancy stuff. Then it was on to Lowes for fertilizer and a spreader (boy howdy it was exciting). We got to Waterloo Gardens about an hour before they shut and picked out two tomato plants, some thyme, basil, rosemary, and oregano. Now I just have to find the sunny spot in the yard. It will just be a container garden on account of all the bunnies.

I did get some work in on Enchanted Alphabet. I'll try to remember to photograph it so I'm not talking in the abstract all the time.